How many have you seen in your life who goes beyond extent for their loved ones to bring smile on their face. Do you ever realize that the most amazing thing is to make someone feel happy.

It doesnt take much effort. But it is never our priority. Or rather our thought process is always more towards money, work, fun, entertainment, etc. "Myself" is the focus which might not be incorrect; but what seems incorrect is that others are not even in our peripherals. Thining and acting are different things. We think that doing certain things may be right but we dont do it.

If you read this please pause for a moment to think who are your closed ones and when did you last time expressed your love for them.

I wish God gives everybody enough capacity and willingness to give !!

A poem...
Words inside lie un-spoken,
That are yet to come.
I sometimes stop to break down,
But another second and again, I'm numb.
And I'm screaming inside,Mentally, I'm running away.
I tell myself it's not true,As my world goes grey.
I'm not capable of taking it,
Not ready to believe.
Yeah, I'm holding back,No, I won't breathe

I read this poem while surfing net...
Experiences keep people punching and with every punch in stomach, the will to live life dies gradually. People fight and cry and might do a lot of crazy things to vent out their frustrations.

Once the frustration, the sadness is vented out, the container (the heart) can once again be filled with love, happines and if the fate has decided a next punch for you, then probably again the heart is going to be filled with negativity, hopelessness, sadness, etc.

But everytime is not possible to find out ways to get rid of these sad feelings. When the count of such bad experiences increases, your heart gradually becomes immune to the actions which make it feel better.

And thats precisely when a person becomes numb!!!!. There are times when tears just dont come however hard you may try; there is no way to empty your heart and once again have an opportunity to fill it with something better. In such a situation the hear continues to remain filled with the sad feelings and this conistency is like a mental poison, which lets the person to be alive physically, but mentally is dead. Thats the numb state!!!!And no magic works then...!!!

People might comment on this with flavours of positivity. But let me tell you anybody can think and write about and be positive only till the moment that last punch of your life has not come.

May God bless this world by dismissing the last punch in everybody's life.

IT world - Give peace and get money

IT industries specially the delivery track has become more like you give your peace of mind, give up your personal life and get money in return. I happily started my career in IT industry; but today I repent to be in this industry after 6.5 years.

I have my friends who are psychologist, and every session they give changes somebody's life to an extent. Such a meaningful job; just imagine the job satisfaction!!!

In industries also we have clients but we don't change their lives, we change the IT systems of the organization they belong to. This industry is about making dead things work better, look better. So obviously the job satisfaction is negligible when we think from the perspective of "Did i do something better today".

These days IT industries specially during recession and after that, have started bidding for projects at a much lower price to retain the clients. On top of that, they will try their best to cut the project cost internally such that the actual cost is half the price which the client agreed to pay. This is how they make profits from client and then from their own employees.

Yes the companies do earn from its own employees !!!. The project would actually need say 5 resources and 3 months. In the bidding process this might get reduced to 4 resource and 3 months. In reality only 2 employees would be assigned to this project for 3 months.

So its always the developers who bear this burden. Thats precisely why people in IT industries have to slog so much.

I wish to change my profession and get into a meaningful job. Can you suggest me any options???

HMMM...lunch is ready....more later...

Desires

I have always been fond of dancing. My friends and family also know about it. I am happy that my blogging starts with the mention of my passion and my favourite show so far.

I shouldnt call it my passion any more. Dont ask me the reason !!!!

(Note - I cannot mention everything about my life; all my blogs are going to be little secretive:-) Dont break your head to understannd it because I am unpredictable. Whatever you think about me cannot be true unless you are innocent and bestowed with enough intelligence.)

Some people are so lucky that they are able to nurture their talent further and that really brings happiness to them. Somebody has rightly said " A great deal of talent is lost for the want of little courage".
Example - When it comes to dance/ or any talent/art like it courage is required to fight against the family first when they dont support it.

It is so sad that at times a person has to first fight with his own family for simple things and then struggle with the world to get a right break. This is precisely why today's youth is crazy for friends.

Why is it so difficult to understand simple things/simple emotions? Well I know 1000 answers to this questions; but no solution so just leave it.

You get everything in this world with a tradeoff. This calls for decision making skills. People whose attitude is negative are always poor decision makers and vice versa. Bottomline they cannot get peace. Consequently people around them /loved ones dont get peace. And thats how most of the world is seeking peace today. :-)

Everything is linked and you would agree when you would see . Keep thinking :-)